Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Beautiful Thing: Director of Mysteries

Today's Beautiful Moment:

When an eight year old child saw this sign on my door...


...and read out loud, "Director of Children's...MYSTERIES???"

The music director (who had just finished teaching the boy's piano lesson) and I certainly got a kick out of it.  You have to love the fanciful nature of childhood, when it makes perfect sense to have a department of mysteries right next door to where you take piano lessons.  I felt a bit bad telling the boy that I am actually the Director of Children's MINISTRIES, and that there were no mysteries to be had - in fact, I'm not sure he bought my explanation.  

Although, I have taken to watching Sherlock on my lunch breaks...maybe it's left an air of mystery about my office.

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Beautiful Thing: The Miracle Sticker

Today's beautiful thing may not seem particularly beautiful, but believe me it is.  

Behold the beauty of this Lisa Frank sticker.  Cherish it.  Respect it.  Contemplate it.


Now believe me, this is a thing of beauty - because, you see, I am 99% sure that this sticker helped me to successfully encourage six 3-4 year old's to behave.  

As the Children's Ministry Director at the church, I also direct the church preschool that meets on the property twice a week.  While I love kids, this part of my job drives me nuts sometimes.  There's just a lot to be in charge of when you're running a preschool, and it can become overwhelming for someone who hold's a Master's degree in Christian Education but has no academic training in business management.  Anyway, as the director, I hold chapel time with the kids every preschool day, so the teachers can take their breaks.  Typically, it's utter chaos.  You try getting a bunch of preschoolers to sit still and focus on a story for 20 minutes straight.  Since today was our first day back since Christmas, I was expecting an extra dose of chaos.  But somehow, the kids were well-behaved.  The good behavior of the super-mellow 2-yr-old class merited stickers, and as I was passing them out, my eyes landed on the cat sticker you see above.

Let me make something clear.  I like cats.  I also like Lisa Frank.  And, although I may be in my mid-twenties, I also like stickers.  So after handing stickers out to the kids, I peeled off the cat sticker and stuck it on my sweater.  Why?  Because I felt like it would add an air of happiness to my morning, and you'll recall that my one New Year's resolution involved pursuing happiness relentlessly.

Enter the 3- to 4-year-old class for chapel.  This is the class with the most rambunctious kids in the program, who generally require the assistance of another adult to keep from disrupting everything.  I'd already arranged for another adult to be in the room, like I have done for half the school year.  But today, things were different, and I think it's because of the sticker.

It went something like this:

"Children, do you see what Ms. Celia has on her sweater?"

"A STICKER!!!!!!!!!!"

"Would you like a sticker too?"

"YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

"What do you think you have to do to get a sticker?"

"BE GOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

And lo and behold if those children weren't good.  They were attentive, they were engaged, they were responsive, and they were able to retell the story on their own by the end of the twenty minutes.  Of course, this isn't the first time stickers have made an appearance as a good-behavior incentive.  In fact, I've given them out after almost every chapel time.  But this is the first time that I had a sticker shining forth its colorful glory from my sweater for every child to see throughout all of chapel.  And today, for the first time, every single child got a sticker at the end of class, and no one had to sit in time out at recess because they were being hellacious in a holy setting.  

So thank God for stickers.  Clearly, miracles do happen. 

Monday, January 7, 2013

Resolved.

I don't make too many New Years resolutions anymore.  I made a crazy amount of them two years ago, and while they did serve me well, I've come to the realization that well-intending to-do lists don't lead to enduring life change.  But, the ideologies behind those to-do lists can effect positive change, I believe.  With that in mind, I here proclaim my New Year's Resolution:

I resolve to pursue happiness relentlessly, and to seek beauty every day.

And, that's about it.

Now, because good intentions mean nothing unless they are put into action, I have identified a couple particular to-do list items for the year.  One of these is to attempt to find something beautiful every day (as clearly stated in the resolution).  I've recently become one of the populous of smartphone owners, meaning that I always have a camera at my disposal.  So find beauty I will, photograph it I shall, and here post it for others to see.  My hope, then, is that by appreciating the little beautiful things of my life, I'll point myself on a path of greater thankfulness and appreciation for the everyday blessings that often get overrun by stress and anxiety.

Oh, and I'm going to try to write more.  Obviously.

So check back every day for something beautiful.  In the meantime, here are some beautiful things from the first week of 2013.

Lone Elk Park (St. Louis, MO)

Elk in Winter (St. Louis, MO)

Degas and Others (St. Louis Art Museum)

A Child, through the Eyes of Monet (St. Louis Art Museum)

Art Hill (St. Louis, MO)